tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.comments2012-01-01T02:59:29.187+11:00Lust and ConfusedLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]Blogger447125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-69311564334604013412011-12-31T15:49:40.688+11:002011-12-31T15:49:40.688+11:00Fantastic blog entry sweety! I too have been havin...Fantastic blog entry sweety! I too have been having difficulties with similar questions. I seem to have lost any previous knowledge on how life works and am not sure how to reclaim said knowledge. Fingers crossed for a more enlightened year!!Thyiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17653155537325005848[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-88128546815716141802011-12-30T19:25:49.834+11:002011-12-30T19:25:49.834+11:00Love the photo - and the fascinating images that g...Love the photo - and the fascinating images that go with it!<br /><br />As for &#39;a few seasonal kilos&#39;, couldn&#39;t agree more with Lilly. You&#39;re beautiful, whether you&#39;re wearing tiger stripes or anything else that catches your fancy ^^<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />Genny xoxGenevieve[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-8773602230122778032011-12-29T09:21:20.571+11:002011-12-29T09:21:20.571+11:00Yummy, I love the marks!Yummy, I love the marks!sexymasqueradehttp://sexymasquerade.wordpress.com/[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-90552078387139369662011-12-29T07:18:43.287+11:002011-12-29T07:18:43.287+11:00You have such a beautiful body and omg breasts tha...You have such a beautiful body and omg breasts that make me want to reach out and touch them. <br /><br />MollyxxxMollyhttp://www.mollysdailykiss.com[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-18674868084466266082011-12-29T06:21:46.780+11:002011-12-29T06:21:46.780+11:00Yum yum yum - you look so very nibbleable! Also, ...Yum yum yum - you look so very nibbleable!<br /><br />Also, *gentle hugs*<br /><br />xx DeeCurvaceous Deehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09293282711513429803[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-75155954214769860902011-12-29T06:00:26.133+11:002011-12-29T06:00:26.133+11:00If I can still see a hipbone poking out then you n...If I can still see a hipbone poking out then you need more seasonal kilos :P <br /><br />I adore being scratched (my back is always itchy) but for some reason it never leaves marks like that. You look like a tiger :)Lillyhttp://www.dangerouslilly.com[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-7501301088773600732011-12-29T04:35:16.612+11:002011-12-29T04:35:16.612+11:00I wouldn&#39;t be thinking of any extra christmas ...I wouldn&#39;t be thinking of any extra christmas kilos, you you look smashing and the stripes do look nice on you.Infernohttp://www.redregioninferno.com/theinferno[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-82922059525205420702011-12-29T04:26:34.817+11:002011-12-29T04:26:34.817+11:00That was from scratching? Wowsa, I don&#39;t gene...That was from scratching? Wowsa, I don&#39;t generally get such nice patterning!! :)<br /><br />~Kazi xxxKaziGrrlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03491367639803127084[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-75493625304035239832011-12-18T21:39:21.193+11:002011-12-18T21:39:21.193+11:00i like it 2 muchi like it 2 muchAnonymous[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-3647655695996613622011-12-12T23:54:39.487+11:002011-12-12T23:54:39.487+11:00I think it would be much more helpful for your cau...I think it would be much more helpful for your cause if I can paraphrase your comment into a post so that others can comment on it... if that is okay by you? ... a thread of comments is really not the right place to give advice.<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-85607615487442201372011-12-12T17:50:46.851+11:002011-12-12T17:50:46.851+11:00Hi! i am a regular reader of this blog,and i salut...Hi!<br />i am a regular reader of this blog,and i salute and admire all the thoughts that are propounded here, but now for once i want some help from you and all the readers and subscribers of this blog, i am open to suggestions,advise,criticism,rebuke,..but help me out..im in deep trouble and only someone on this platform can help, and i am so convinced about it..<br />I am in love with this girl who is younger to me by a few years, infact she is as madly in love with me as i am,but the twist is that when we proclaimed love for each other ,she told me that she was engaged to be married,we have been together for 8 months together and trust me,out hearts beat for each other, but she was not ready to marry me,coz her family had already solemnized some ceremony with this boy,and now the family&#39;s reputation was on stake so she cannot back out,and she does not want to leave me too, she (how do i say this?)proposed an &quot;extra-marital affair&quot; and is ready to give m e all the privileges of a partner ,a wife but outside the marriage,infact she got married 9 days back,and she is maintaining silence(no communication for initial days after her wedding) something that we mutually agreed to.she also confessed that so as to save her from the burden of being alone in the &quot;extra marital fling&quot;, that i get married to someone else of my choice and continue inn this relation with her..we have cried together in this relationship,we have laughed together, and we have that sensitive feel for each other, we have even tried to breakup,but every time we try we come back strongly(this was just to check whether it was love or just lust..i laugh at the way we thought )but trust me every time we faught and tried to separate, we just could not stay away and as if our world would shatter, we came back strongly...her getting married to me was never an option,no i am confused,stressed,tense,in dilemma, as if my world is all gone,all i can do is wait so that she comes back,coz i promised not to call her or contact her,but i have all the means to contact her, mail,phone ,even her own place and her husbands place, she shared all with me,but just that i swore not to call her, i am restraining myself,till the eleventh hour of her wedding,the very day we were talking on phone,even when she was surrounded by people of her family..one thing she told me that she is marrying just coz of her parents and if if she has to sacrifice her life,her happiness, she wont back out now, and coz i love her, i worship her, i have to trust her...one thing i am aware is that the person she is getting married to is a very possessive person,jealous and a finicky bastard, i have been the audience to their fights and their verbal spats on phone,he does not trust her at all, and at times has also threatened her with stupid consequences, but she still has married her, and every time i asked her to back out she would not do it..citing her families commitments and the bad name it would bring to her family and the kind of shock her parents would get...i can go on and on..<br />i hope you must have got what i wanted to say..now i want help,suggestion..advise from you, coz i know your thoughts are so bloody right and i subscribe to them blindly...<br />one thing more,she belongs to a very conservative society and family where all this is a big &quot;no-no&quot;..<br />i don&#39;t know what else to write,but would appreciate any thing u want to know that will help you to give me some sincere advise,as to whats going on here,i want someone to think as her and advise me,whats going on in her heart and soul,not saying that i don&#39;t trust her,and as far as the wait is concerned, i can wait for ages,till the day i am no more...but still want to have opinions..please help ASAP<br />looking forward to a divine help from you..please help me ease this pain,hope u will understand<br />PaulSINhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04122362841470430976[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-72288563049656502042011-12-09T08:55:32.225+11:002011-12-09T08:55:32.225+11:00@Mistress L: First and foremost, welcome to our bl...@Mistress L: First and foremost, welcome to our blog :) ... Anna has several posts in the pipeline that look pretty damn good to me. Not sure when they are due.<br /><br />And regarding age... when push comes to shove, I don&#39;t let it bother me directly. I barely notice the numerical age as such anyway. It&#39;s just that when I reflect on ages, I am suddenly thrown into the vortex where I feel like it should matter more to me than it does.<br /><br />Having said that, I logically know that immature people regardless of (legal!) age would never hold my attention beyond the ogling-hot-bodies-from-afar stage, so I *know* that I shouldn&#39;t actually worry about my own motivations. But that&#39;s easier said than done (even to oneself).<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-18631988951408086592011-12-09T08:47:58.398+11:002011-12-09T08:47:58.398+11:00Found your blog on the Top 100 List. I just think ...Found your blog on the Top 100 List. I just think it is odd when you think about how highly age (not necessarily) maturity is regarded in general society. But that&#39;s why I trust my instinct and not calendars. Don&#39;t let a presence of strangers&#39; ideals stop you from enjoying yourself or life.Mistress Lhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10447899042237106232[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-65162578682554302922011-12-07T17:06:57.152+11:002011-12-07T17:06:57.152+11:00@Christina: I don&#39;t think the anticipation and...@Christina: I don&#39;t think the anticipation and hint of fear ever go away completely. Nobody wants to hear &quot;no&quot;, and often settles for not hearing anything rather than taking a little risk in exchange for a &quot;yes&quot;.<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-89923572366487673962011-12-07T16:49:44.571+11:002011-12-07T16:49:44.571+11:00Ive met many men offline by chatting in a Pennsylv...Ive met many men offline by chatting in a Pennsylvania for 40plus chatroom! As with all things, even meeting someone in a Bar atmosphere can be challenging!! But by all means be careful and if it doesnt seem right, dont do it!! I know I have a Guarding Angel looking out for me...but every meet is still wraught with anticipation and fear of the unknown!!Christinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10713080076445756535[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-4649579079542813672011-12-06T12:11:35.794+11:002011-12-06T12:11:35.794+11:00I seem to have lost Genevieve&#39;s follow-up comm...I seem to have lost Genevieve&#39;s follow-up comment somehow, so let me reproduce it here:<br /><br />&quot; Or little nick on the arm and judge it on how loudly they squeal ;)&quot; - Genny<br /><br />All I can say to that is, it sounds more like a test for masochism or pain tolerance. Not necessarily a bad test, just not the one we&#39;re after here ;-) <br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-65664562576799663722011-12-06T09:33:21.267+11:002011-12-06T09:33:21.267+11:00@Travis: that is a good point, although I have als...@Travis: that is a good point, although I have also noticed the converse in the context of my OkC profile; &quot;older&quot; women seem more hesitant replying, probably assuming that &quot;polyamorous&quot; means I&#39;m cheating on Anna so they should avoid me altogether, whereas &quot;younger&quot; women are curiously asking questions and being engaging. Either because they are less jaded, or maybe it is a generational thing?<br /><br />@Genevieve: I have never figured out if the XKCD formula is an actual one people &quot;use&quot;, or if it&#39;s just Randall Munroe being funny in his own unique way, but at lower ages it does a remarkably good job at approximating what society &quot;thinks&quot;. And on the point of measurement, maybe there&#39;s a scratch-test available? Little nick on the arm, and then a colour chart to see how mature the recipient is? ;)Lust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-52470665927594895332011-12-06T08:14:16.674+11:002011-12-06T08:14:16.674+11:00I agree completely - I remember when I was coming ...I agree completely - I remember when I was coming up to my 18th there was a fair bit of discussion over &#39;now you&#39;re going to be an adult&#39;, as though I hadn&#39;t done any growing up till then, but was suddenly going to go from &#39;helpless child&#39; to &#39;independent adult&#39; overnight.<br /><br />The XKCD thing looks to do a better job at limiting &#39;okay&#39; relationships relatively - I guess reasoning that that way you&#39;re still close enough in age to have some of the same life goals - but at the end of the day, as you say, it comes down to individual people.<br /><br />We just need to find a way to measure that, to keep Society happy.<br /><br />Maybe some kind of Maturity test?<br /><br />Excellent post, well written :)Genny[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-51663702999250171242011-12-06T08:13:19.294+11:002011-12-06T08:13:19.294+11:00There&#39;s another element in play here that I&#3...There&#39;s another element in play here that I&#39;ve encountered over the years as a guy. When I meet and talk with a younger woman, I&#39;m always aware that frequently there&#39;s an unspoken apprehension that my politeness or friendliness is my way of coming onto her. I think this is because young women are used to being hit on by guys their own age, for sure, and older guys as well.<br /><br />Conversely, when I have the exact same conversation with older women (and by &quot;older,&quot; I mean 30s onward--and I just turned 34, so trust me that this is not ageism!), they&#39;re much less suspicious. I don&#39;t know if it&#39;s because they&#39;re mature enough to see that not every conversational engagement is, in fact, a come on or maybe they don&#39;t get that kind of attention as much anymore so they figure even if that&#39;s what it is, they like it more than they used to in their 20s.Travis McClainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06381792002836474683[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-90993438866003274852011-12-04T22:30:31.448+11:002011-12-04T22:30:31.448+11:00Why, thank you for saying so. We always had this i...Why, thank you for saying so. We always had this idea that part of the reason for this blog was a hope that our discovery process and exploits would be in some way occasionally useful to others beyond being just fun to read. (Although, being fun to read is also very rewarding.)<br /><br />Thanks for the affirmation :)<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-50857615175004076752011-12-04T21:24:35.692+11:002011-12-04T21:24:35.692+11:00It&#39;s a two-parter. You guys are willing to sha...It&#39;s a two-parter. You guys are willing to share what happens to you and how you feel about those things; and *what* you actually share -- the situations, problems, resolutions, etc. -- are also helpful in and of themselves. :)acquiexencehttp://acquiexence.posterous.com[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-54973830346748846342011-12-01T19:25:57.033+11:002011-12-01T19:25:57.033+11:00But if I turn the lights down, how will I see? - ...But if I turn the lights down, how will I see?<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-24818961956372432782011-12-01T19:22:56.626+11:002011-12-01T19:22:56.626+11:00Glad you approve. I only know them from the EQ2 I ...Glad you approve. I only know them from the EQ2 I used to play, so I just improvised the characters a bit. Still... I assume when Anna finds herself in EQ2 next she might find a few more spots with &quot;memories&quot; attached ;)<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-24585668687652088352011-12-01T19:17:45.667+11:002011-12-01T19:17:45.667+11:00Holy wow. Long and epic and steamy. Write more fic...Holy wow. Long and epic and steamy. Write more fiction! :D<br /><br />I&#39;ve never played EQ but I approve of the dark elf! Drizzt (a dark elf in the Forgotten Realms lore) is one of my favourite game/fantasy characters.acquiexencehttp://acquiexence.posterous.com[email protected]tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-18560866984858622072011-12-01T19:15:02.353+11:002011-12-01T19:15:02.353+11:00Actually, no, I&#39;m fairly excruciatingly self-c...Actually, no, I&#39;m fairly excruciatingly self-conscious. BUT let&#39;s put me in a mask and some kind of concealing (albeit provocative?) garment, doing wonderful, torturous things to Anna. Or just turn the lights down. ;)acquiexencehttp://acquiexence.posterous.com[email protected]