tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post3154376619346778946..comments2011-05-04T16:59:39.931+10:00Comments on Lust and Confused: Where We AreLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-28591736852612215712011-05-04T03:31:06.695+10:002011-05-04T03:31:06.695+10:00I don&#39;t think that way could ever be for me......I don&#39;t think that way could ever be for me... but I love the way you wrote it!Joanna Cakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-64979883303657616552011-04-27T03:10:27.115+10:002011-04-27T03:10:27.115+10:00@Lilly; we&#39;re savouring every moment of it... ...@Lilly; we&#39;re savouring every moment of it... both the talking and the not-so-talking. And we will of course be sharing every step along the way on here; it is starting to become a real story with character development and all ;)<br /><br />@Molly; thanks for the compliment on both our behalf... I don&#39;t think anything ever felt as scary as we had feared up-front. Keeping the steps small and manageable definitely helps a lot. And talking... always lots of talking!<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-2453077415771638252011-04-27T02:23:58.981+10:002011-04-27T02:23:58.981+10:00Oh wow...I love the hope in this post, and the way...Oh wow...I love the hope in this post, and the way in which even though at times you were unsure your bravely pushed on to find out what it was you needed to know about yourself and Arthur and the relationship you have.<br /><br />Bravo!<br /><br />MollyxxxMollyhttp://www.mollysdailykiss.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-36622666972393147782011-04-26T11:21:58.195+10:002011-04-26T11:21:58.195+10:00Aww, how great for you guys! I won&#39;t lie, and ...Aww, how great for you guys! I won&#39;t lie, and you know yourselves it won&#39;t be a bed of roses. Just remember the really huge big rule. <br /><br />Talk. <br /><br />Talk and talk some more. <br /><br />And then don&#39;t forget to revel in the wonderfulness of it all :)Dangerous Lillyhttp://www.dangerouslilly.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-80399005694373714032011-04-19T20:21:12.933+10:002011-04-19T20:21:12.933+10:00Cheers Kit :) Sometimes it does just feel like eve...Cheers Kit :) Sometimes it does just feel like everything has just fallen into place.<br /><br />It is funny, when we first started we discussed our rules on a forum with other like-minded people. The first response was something like &quot;Great, but just be warned that sometimes it doesn&#39;t work out as planned. The first woman we met is now a permanent part of our relationship&quot;. I remember thinking to myself that that would NEVER happen to us. I mean, we had all these rules and we weren&#39;t looking, and and and... well yeah. Don&#39;t I feel like a goose! ;)<br /><br />-AnnaLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-78341596798678912212011-04-19T05:57:26.418+10:002011-04-19T05:57:26.418+10:00Thanks for sharing this. I think it&#39;s importan...Thanks for sharing this. I think it&#39;s important to show how rules change, and loosen, and shift over time as people grow used to the realities of polyamory and non-monogamy. Your path sounds like it&#39;s been a good one.Kit O'Connellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00382088133535597565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-24711837542702842152011-04-14T18:11:48.236+10:002011-04-14T18:11:48.236+10:00Thanks for the recommendation on the blog. I appre...Thanks for the recommendation on the blog. I appreciate the care you&#39;ve taken to walk that tightrope between re-posting verbatim and truncating too harshly ;) ... I hadn&#39;t given re-posting and copyright much thought, but I have no problem with what you did.<br /><br />I&#39;ve just followed you as well to remind me to read a few more of your posts when I get a chance to have a proper look.<br /><br />And good luck finding someone special... or multiple someones... there&#39;s really no finite supply of affection to go around.<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-83983947576288790582011-04-14T11:03:33.960+10:002011-04-14T11:03:33.960+10:00Hey guys! One of our Twitter friends recommended ...Hey guys!<br /><br />One of our Twitter friends recommended your blog to us yesterday and we&#39;re so glad he did becasue we love it!<br /><br />We especially loved this particular post and we have reposeted / linked to it from our blog (we hope that&#39;s ok and not too presumptious! lol)<br /><br />The link is http://untildeathdousparty.blogspot.com/2011/04/lust-and-confused-where-we-are.html<br /><br />We&#39;re so happy to read about another couple that has found happiness in a simialar way to us, we have a sort of girlfriend at the moment that probably like us more than we like her, but we are certainly open to the idea of finding someone speical like you have.<br /><br />Mr FunUntil Death do us Partyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08946377355664315014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-32077996848463667032011-04-09T14:36:05.748+10:002011-04-09T14:36:05.748+10:00Thanks Arrabella :) ... you&#39;re always an inspi...Thanks Arrabella :) ... you&#39;re always an inspiration.<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-54068359131003308102011-04-09T04:14:22.988+10:002011-04-09T04:14:22.988+10:00I love you both. So happy for you (three)! XOXOI love you both. So happy for you (three)! XOXOArabellahttp://bombshells-and-rockstars.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-43512284179384913172011-04-03T23:36:16.480+10:002011-04-03T23:36:16.480+10:00@anon#1 Thank you :) @anon#2 Eeek! Those are migh...@anon#1 Thank you :)<br /><br />@anon#2 Eeek! Those are mighty big questions for right now, you are zooming ahead faster than we are! :) They are all good questions, and even though some of them already have answers (and stories) you&#39;ll have to wait a bit til I can get a post together :)<br /><br />To be honest, I think that all we are doing right now is putting a name on something that has existed for a while already. Giving a bit of weight to the relationship as it stands, and we&#39;ll all just see how we like that. <br /><br />I asked Delilah what this changed, and she thought for a bit and said that it didn&#39;t change anything much at all. For now, that is where we are at :)<br /><br />-AnnaLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-28554847035703809372011-04-02T12:39:12.807+11:002011-04-02T12:39:12.807+11:00I&#39;m not sure triad is exactly the right word, ...I&#39;m not sure triad is exactly the right word, but maybe it is. Will have to think about that too now. &quot;Anna&#39;s our girlfriend&quot; sounds just fine to me personally.<br /><br />I don&#39;t think she&#39;s moving in ;) ... but she&#39;s around fairly regularly. She doesn&#39;t really have to post on L&amp;C... for her perspective, just jump over to definingdelilah.blogspot.com and read it right there.<br /><br />I cannot really answer all the questions right here, but I&#39;d recommend keeping an eye on the blog, because they seem the kind of things we&#39;d be blogging about if and when they happen :)<br /><br />I&#39;m sure Anna might have a response separately as well.<br /><br />- ArthurLust and Confusedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10965692602476623334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-68497286927777591072011-04-02T11:40:09.751+11:002011-04-02T11:40:09.751+11:00Oh, you guys. While love is wonderful, absolutely,...Oh, you guys. While love is wonderful, absolutely, I hope you&#39;re doing okay adjusting to the triad life. While it&#39;s obvious you&#39;re comfortable with saying, &quot;Delilah&#39;s our girlfriend&quot;, how does &quot;Arthur is our boyfriend&quot; sit? Or &quot;Anna&#39;s our girlfriend&quot;? As someone who&#39;s considered but actually dabbled in openness, it blows my mind to imagine my relationship with my fella in that context. Are you going to ask her to move in? Ask her to post on L&amp;C? Tell your folks? Have kidlings? Enquiring minds! I hope you guys are all doing well, and congrats!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9095541948061908377.post-9407079142883912532011-04-01T03:26:24.399+11:002011-04-01T03:26:24.399+11:00This post was really sweet. :)This post was really sweet. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com