Bad Timing

Does anyone else ever have runs of bad timing? We seem to have perfected bad timing. Between Anna's occasional lack of spoons, various illnesses alternating between the two of us, and just general exhaustion, sometimes we have a lot of trouble finding time where we are both in the mood.

I could try to calculate what the longest run of bad luck we've had is, but I'm sure it would just depress me. Maybe that's a potential benefit of add-on friends-with-benefits? The ability to have spares around for Anna when I'm indisposed, and vice versa? Not sure we're quite ready for advanced applications like that though.