WTMFI - Week 20: Would You Rather...

We are trying something different. WTMFI is Way Too Much Fucking Information, and consists of 5 questions plus a bonus question. Link below goes back to the origin of this meme.

Question 1: Would you rather have quick sex OR very long sex? (Don't include foreplay)

Ohhh, I feel quite strange saying this but I like it quick. I do love a lot of foreplay and, depending on your definition of such, would sometimes be quite happy to leave it there. Other times I'm desperate to feel a cock inside me. I can't ever say I've wanted a cock inside me for hours and hours covering the entire Kama Sutra. I think I'd end up bruised, chafed and cranky. Of course, this does all depend on your definition of what sex is and what sexual acts count as "real sex".

I guess a bit of both depending on circumstance. But I can be more specific than that. In general, the more risky the location were to be, the more I'd lean towards the quick sex option; as much as the risk is a thrill, the game is still to try and not be found out.
On the other hand, when it is in a private place I probable lean more towards long (provided I have not just done an Attack class before ;) ... I like to take time... and I really like that I don't have any issues keeping going after I come. I think that's not very usual, but I have nothing to compare against, so maybe I only like to believe it's not normal.

Question 2: Would you rather you orgasm everytime OR your partner orgasms everytime? (Only one of you gets to cum!)

I have to pick one? Forever and ever? *sigh* I'd rather my partner was the one to orgasm. I love the feel of Arthur coming inside me, and the feeling of accomplishment I get from knowing that I can satisfy him in such a way. I also have the ability to enjoy the journey. I've had to. Long story but I'm not the most prolific orgasmer to the point that I could probably account for them all on my fingers and toes. Sometimes medication sucks.

Damn... in all honesty, if I were forced to choose I'd choose myself, but only because I like it too much to give up. I feel very selfish saying that, but luckily in the real world it doesn't have to be either/or.

Question 3: Would you rather have a super intense and completely meaningless sexperience OR an average, intimate and deeply personal sexperience?

I'm sappy. I've never managed meaningless. I'd rather share with someone I felt something for, had some sort of connection with, and who would accept all of my quirks as just part of the experience. That being said, I'd be incredibly interested in seeing what a completely meaningless sexual experience is like. I'm not sure I really could do it, but I'd like to try. Just once, just to see...

I'm so torn... I like super intense... and I like intimate and personal... I have no strong feelings for or against completely meaningless, and 'average' is clearly a negative. Purely on points I'd have to pick super intense and completely meaningless because that's a positive and a neutral, whereas the other option is a negative and a positive. Otherwise I think I'd just keep staring at the question undecided.

Question 4: Would you rather have more foreplay and less sex OR less foreplay and more sex?

Touch me, hold me, lick and kiss and bite me. I love my foreplay. Sex is great but for me it is all about the play. There are so many things that work me into a tizz that I'd hate to give up any of them. I mean, there are tons of sex positions for actual penetration, but what about the leadup, the mindfuck, the little things that can make me leap out of my skin before I'm even touched? I'm not about to give those up.

In general I'd have to say more sex. This probably has something to do with liking the orgasms too much to give up as well ;) ... Having said that, I obviously do count the part of the sex where mouths or cocks or pussies are in-action, but not actively trying to get to orgasm, as part of sex, and in a sense that's not really entirely not like foreplay (double negative!). Is there a word for that part of the sex? ... Intermission? *grin*

Question 5: Would you rather roll over and fall asleep after sex OR take a shower and cuddle?

The neat freak in me in screaming shower, the romantic is saying cuddle but to be honest I have fantasised about the roll over and snooze. I think I'd be too worried I'd make my partner insecure if I did the roll over and snooze. I'd be terribly miffed.

Easy... shower and cuddle. I feel much to energised, alive and awake after sex. I may feel differently if we try a really long marathon sometime... *glances over to Anna* ... maybe we'd need a third for that tho? *cheeky grin*

BONUS QUESTION: Would you rather talk dirty such as, "Fuck my little pussy with your fat hard cock!" or "You like my swollen cock ramming into your wet pussy, you dirty little whore? OR soft, gentle and romantic talk such as, "You're so beautiful and I long to hold you close to me?" or "You're body is amazing and I love you so much!"?

Dirty dirty all the way, but it can't sound scripted. If you are gunna talk dirty to me, you'd better say it like you mean it. I'm not against romantic but that is for an entirely different sort of sex.

Hm... I'm not a natural talker. I'm trying to figure out how to get better... but I'm not sure all-out dirty is really me. But neither does the pure romantic sound entirely like me.

As an aside, the talking is most likely where I'd end up feeling inadequate with another person involved... talking just... feels awkward when it is unfamiliar. Although I must say that writing the fantasy stories has helped me feel a little more comfortable with the vocabulary.